My husband and I have been talking recently about how much influence we really have on what interests/hobbies our kids pursue. Are they just born with certain innate talents and inevitable interests? We have our own ideas about what we think would be best or fun for them to do, but offering it to them … Continue reading Helping Kids Find & Pursue Their Own Interests
Choosing New Habits
I have been thinking a lot about habits these last few months. And as much as I believe that as humans we can be spontaneous, creative, and adventurous, I'm believing more and more that we are essentially creatures of habit. There is much written about this. One of my favorite bloggers, Leo Baboata writes about … Continue reading Choosing New Habits
Benefits of Playing Boggle
How many of you played Boggle as a kid? I was one of those types who would go to sleep thinking of how many word combinations you could make with the letters "EMAT" or "NTOE" when in a square. I would make sure to utilize the "S" for every possible plural word. I had a blast … Continue reading Benefits of Playing Boggle
Case Study – Susan Seay and A Powerful Moment
I remember the first time I met Susan. She was leading a monthly book club, and I showed up as a stranger, new to the city. I was warmly welcomed, and throughout the time together, extremely encouraged. Each month, the meeting was one of my main highlights. Susan was so wise. She had this ability … Continue reading Case Study – Susan Seay and A Powerful Moment
Coming Out of a Funk
There have been many times in life when I wish a had a personalized road-map and set of directions to follow. Maybe it's my personality, or maybe I can blame it on my schooling experience! (ha!) But sadly, there's a part of me that likes to be "told what to do." Times like my freshman … Continue reading Coming Out of a Funk
Thinking Putty
In the past, I've let my kids build with blocks, Magnetix, Tinker Toys, Superstructs or even Legos while they listen to me read. In many ways it allowed them a heightened sense of attention and focus. There's much evidence to support this practice, especially for kinesthetic learners. It was successful for my kids as long … Continue reading Thinking Putty
Customer Profile: My-Cherie Haley of Shimmer & Bliss
A room lights up when My-Cherie Haley walks in. She just carries that aura of confidence, sincerity, and class. She is full of life, laughter, and passion that is most attractive to those around her. My-Cherie owns Shimmer & Bliss, a company that makes hand-dyed air-silk scarves. Now, these are not just any scarves. Their … Continue reading Customer Profile: My-Cherie Haley of Shimmer & Bliss
“Working on Things”
"We all have things that we are working on right now," our middle son reminded us in a very communal, inspiring way. It's true, even as parents, we all have ways we are learning and changing. And with our children, it seems we are constantly training habits and working with them on various skills or … Continue reading “Working on Things”
Being Prepared or Being Ready
My husband has a most deceiving outward trait. If you were to watch him line up his shoes, clear off his desk space, or de-clutter our garage, you would think he was just an OCD neat-freak. We've all met people like that. They are sometimes just visibly annoyed when something is out of place or … Continue reading Being Prepared or Being Ready
Spring Break Sweet Times
Well, this was unlike any Spring Break I was anticipating. We wanted to hike! We planned some local hikes with friends and tentatively planned a camping trip out to Big Bend. But instead, we all came down with the flu. Of course, if asked, we'd all say we wish we didn't have it, but we'd … Continue reading Spring Break Sweet Times
The New Economy for Women
I had the privilege of speaking to a group of homeschool teachers last month about the affects and opportunities of living and working in this new economy. The "new economy" being that of uncertainty, innovative technology, and a digital socially connected world. As women, we have the opportunity to step into it boldly as supportive … Continue reading The New Economy for Women
Ownership and Failure
We were team leaders this year of a group of boys competing in Destination Imagination, a global organization that gives teams of students the opportunity to compete in creative problem solving challenges. Our oldest son met weekly with a group of 3 other boys here at our home to practice instant challenges and work on … Continue reading Ownership and Failure
Connecting with Our Children
As parents, we become keenly aware of time. We watch it slip between our fingers with every inch that our children grow, every new opportunity or challenge they step into. We try our best to nurture an authentic relationship with open communication, but sometimes between the soccer practices, mealtime frenzy, or household chores, we miss … Continue reading Connecting with Our Children
When People Buy You
Our family has started a new evening tradition this week. We have been watching multiple episodes of Shark Tank on Hulu, gathered around our large screen computer with blankets and snacks, ready to hit pause at any moment to talk about what we see and hear. It has been one of the most educational activities … Continue reading When People Buy You
Comfortable with Change
Leo Babauta wrote an excellent article titled, "9 Essential Skills Kids Should Learn." His last one was "Dealing with Change." He says: "Life is an adventure, and things will go wrong, turn out differently than you expected, and break whatever plans you made — and that’s part of the excitement of it all." My husband … Continue reading Comfortable with Change
Juggling Priorities in Business
Stop Stealing Dreams
I took some time this evening to read Seth Godin's Manifesto, "Stop Stealing Dreams" on the state of Education today. His killer question repeated throughout is: What is School For? He attacks this question with case studies, concrete ideas for change, a history of our school system, as well as opinions on the future of … Continue reading Stop Stealing Dreams
Amy Kirk and Novellas Farm
I remember seeing Amy Kirk's name and farm classes come across in email announcements. I watched her evolve over months from an idea for a farm class to a full-fledged business, website and all in Novellas Farm and Schoolhouse. Without ever meeting her, I was so proud of her from afar. I had the opportunity … Continue reading Amy Kirk and Novellas Farm
“I See You”
One of the gifts I feel like I can give people, particularly women, is sight. As women, we are often our harshest critics, and we take for granted our uniqueness and talent. We assume that everyone can do what we do or learn what we know. We don't see that our habits, skills, experience or … Continue reading “I See You”
Biographies
It's a privilege to be able to put yourself in someone else's shoes. To really understand life as they see it and live it. Autobiographies and biographies offer an excellent opportunity to do that. I have always appreciated reading biographies with my children. We started off in their early years reading all of D'Aulaire's well-written … Continue reading Biographies
Parenting and Horse Training
I thought I was signing up my children for a foal care course, but it surely must have just been code for "Parenting Class 101." We attended our second class today, and it just gets better and better. This morning, I decided that I'm going to buy my pregnant sisters a horse-training book rather than any … Continue reading Parenting and Horse Training
Educational Resources for Homeschool Families
I spent some time with several homeschool moms this evening, and here were a few resources that some families found helpful in to incorporate in their educational pursuits: National Geographic Magazines Puzzlemaniakids Magic Tree House Kahn Academy Starfall Also, one mom suggested searching for "Scholarship Essays" to provide opportunities for our children to earn scholarships … Continue reading Educational Resources for Homeschool Families
Austin Trails and Parks
Austin offers many opportunities for local hikes and nature study. And as part of our school routines, we try to hit a different park or trail each week. You can pack a bag with simple staples like nature journal, pencils, bird/tree guide, water and snacks and quickly head out the door. Or bring your … Continue reading Austin Trails and Parks
Are You Rich?
"How rich?" you might ask. 😉 Well, according to Tim Sanders, in his book Today, We are Rich, anyone in any financial position can be "rich" when they choose to step into a position of giving. In the first chapter of his book, Sanders shares an inspiring story about how his Grandma, Billye was able … Continue reading Are You Rich?
Calligraphy for Kids
After listening to Steve Job's Stanford 2005 graduation speech again as well as watching the documentary on his life, I was inspired to buy some Calligraphy pens for my children. I have one child who has a natural eye and hand for art and beauty and was curious to see how he would like it. … Continue reading Calligraphy for Kids
Music for Children
I am so glad to have a younger child - it gives me an excuse to still listen to Children's singers like Raffi and Laurie Berkner. If you have young children and haven't heard of Laurie Berkner yet, check out her website, download a few tunes, and test her out with your kiddos. I have … Continue reading Music for Children
Symphony of Clouds
We attended Symphony of Clouds performed by Ballet Austin, dramatizing the childhood of Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. This 50 minute performance was an incredible blend of theatre, ballet, and music entertainment. We loved every minute. I was pleasantly surprised when the first character came out on stage and started speaking beautifully - in Spanish! She would … Continue reading Symphony of Clouds
Planning and Systems
Self-admitedly, I am a recovering box-checker. I seem to work well with to-do lists and plans . . . Except when I make myself a "slave" to them, instead of the other way around. However, even in spite of that issue, I have found that a general plan is necessary when homeschooling more than one … Continue reading Planning and Systems
Music in Our Blood
A few months ago I had a completely euphoric feeling as I sat back and listened to my son's guitar teacher playing for us. I could have listened to her forever. I got excited as I also imagined being able to one day listen to him jam for us. And then it all clicked - … Continue reading Music in Our Blood
Branding – What Are You About?
The concept of "branding" is immense - well-researched, written about, and consulted upon. But in its simplest form, I believe it is answered and reflected in "What are you all about?" Especially for individual entrepreneurs or small companies, these questions are important to define. Branding Questions to Ask Yourself What do you like to do? … Continue reading Branding – What Are You About?
Critical Thinking
My son and I had the privilege of visiting a class at the University of Texas this semester. The professor, Dr. Kevin Foster invited us to attend his class on Intro to African American Studies. (or did I invite myself, and he graciously received us?! 🙂 The focus of the class was on Critical Thinking. … Continue reading Critical Thinking
Creativity
Each day confronts us with opportunities to be creative. When we choose to step into them, a habit of creativity, imagination, and problem solving is strengthened. For our children, there are too many things that can distract them from the simple focus and attention of creative play. I came across the best list of toys … Continue reading Creativity
Field Trips and Activities around Austin
We still discover new places to explore here in Austin. As a homeschool family, we look for experiences that facilitate fun learning and memories. The following have been a few favorites this last semester: Toyota Tundra Factory - We had a front row trolley-like seat to the entire assembly line production. I was amazed as … Continue reading Field Trips and Activities around Austin
True Fans
Something about Seth's recent post just grabbed me. "Who would come to your opening night?" he asks. In other words, who are your true fans who show up before they read the critiques, before the paperback version comes out - they show up because they are eager, they support you and your cause. They know … Continue reading True Fans
Why Write?
Writing, to a writer is like breathing. They can't help it. In the same way that an artist cannot help creating, or musicians cannot stop themselves from humming, tapping, playing -- a writer must write. It is a release, an outlet, an art form. In the digital world though, where content is king, writing can … Continue reading Why Write?
Instant Challenges
Homeschooling three kids this year has proved to be much more enjoyable than I had imagined. I underestimated the special qualities of group dynamics now available to us. We can do many things together like music, art, history, Spanish, sign-language, memory verses, some literature, and poetry recitation. Early on, I recognized the need for some … Continue reading Instant Challenges
Live in Your Sweet Spot
My husband and I have been playing more tennis lately. I've had to re-familiarize myself with my swing after several months off. It is astounding to me what a difference it makes in my hit when the ball connects with the "sweet spot" on the racket. It is solid, controlled, and powerful. As a business … Continue reading Live in Your Sweet Spot
Countdown to Publishing
Once you have a manuscript draft, celebrate and share it with friends and respected colleagues for initial feedback. Basic things to seek from them: Does your idea/story/knowledge connect or meet a need? Is it readable? What is missing? Next dig deep and work through important revisions, edits, and proofreading. You can have greater confidence … Continue reading Countdown to Publishing
eBook Publishing
Never before has it been easier to be a bonafied published author! Anyone who has an original idea, story, or system can now share it with the world. In a book. The publishing barriers to entry have been removed because we are no longer vying for shelf-space. The initial investments now are not necessarily capital, … Continue reading eBook Publishing
To Inspire
I was reading a book on education a while back, and one quote stuck with me in regards to teaching children: Inspire, not require It is much more effective, not to mention more enjoyable and energizing. I've made the mistake too many times with my son assuming that assigning a task will produce a positive, … Continue reading To Inspire
Growing Up
The other weekend, I dropped off some things at Goodwill. This wasn't a regular drop off of old sheets, clothes, or shoes. In my trunk, I had a few items that represented the kids' toddler years. Preschool games, toys, etc. that had been collecting too much dust and finally had just taken up too much … Continue reading Growing Up
Case Study: Betsy Dewey
Betsy came across my blog one day and said, "I want one, too." But what she meant was, "I have an enormous amount of knowledge, experience, and passion that I want to share with the world and need a venue to express it." Betsy had been to undergrad at Vanderbilt and grad school at UNC, … Continue reading Case Study: Betsy Dewey
Easy Trails
We are a pretty active family and always enjoy a great hike. Now that our kids are older, though, they are also able to mountain bike while we run along beside them. We've discovered new local trails in the process, great for mountain biking beginners, in addition to our tried and true favorites like Twin … Continue reading Easy Trails
Getting Your Message Across
It is a miraculous thing, if you think about it, to be able to transfer the ideas and words in our head and heart into text. The jumbled passion of knowledge and emotion gain clarity as we are forced to organize phrases, sentences, paragraphs. When we re-read the stream of thoughts, they are powerful, almost … Continue reading Getting Your Message Across
Activity Instructors
As a mom of three children, we have been through our share of lessons - music, art, gymnastics, sports, karate, horse back riding, etc. And as a constant observer of business process, I have been pleasantly appreciative of the thought behind how many of the instructors have set up their business systems and also made … Continue reading Activity Instructors
Optimizing Content
The best content comes from the heart - passionate conviction or surprising insight that you are compelled to share with the world. Your language will be natural, fluid, and clear because you have something important to say. Always write like that. Then, once you have established great habits of writing, you can start optimizing your … Continue reading Optimizing Content
First Customer
Everything is theoretical until you have a customer. You can plan and hope and imagine, but nothing is real until you are forced to deliver a product or experience to a real-live customer. We encourage you to sign up your first customer as quickly as possible. The trial and error cycle speeds up because you … Continue reading First Customer
When You Are the Product
Now, more than ever, you have an opportunity to understand the reality that you are the "product." Whenever you work -- actually, whenever you do anything -- you are "selling" and "branding" yourself. People come to know what you believe, what you know, how you are "useful/beneficial" to their own lives. When you worked for … Continue reading When You Are the Product
Consuming Content
Because it is increasingly difficult to keep up with so many websites and blogs, many people use two popular methods to stay abreast of their readings and interests. Email Subscription The first is through an email subscription. When you visit a site that has content you value, you can "subscribe" to it by entering your … Continue reading Consuming Content
Starting Simple
David Meerman Scott has been blogging since 2004. Until recently, however, his blogsite, "Web Ink Now" was pretty much outdated. Functional, but simple. In spite of that, he managed to build up a huge, strong tribe around strategies for marketing and leadership. He is clearly a respected expert in his field. I read his recent … Continue reading Starting Simple
Remarkable Content
Today, more than ever, the timeless habits of reading and writing are most valuable as a business owner. How does someone find you online? What is the best way to keep in touch with them when they do? Through your writing. Remarkable writing. Content that peaks someone's interest and invites them to linger and learn. … Continue reading Remarkable Content
Easy
As moms, we juggle many demands. So much so, that sometimes, even a small obstacle keeps us from the goal, simply because another need pulls us away in distraction. We've all been consumers. I've found that it is surprisingly enjoyable when someone makes it easier on me by removing any of the friction that gets … Continue reading Easy
Keeping in Touch
I have always tried to be a person who was great at keeping in touch with others. In college, I frequently wrote to my sisters and best friends from high school via snail mail. After college, grateful for email and cell phones, I made sure to keep in touch with those new-found soul-mates from those … Continue reading Keeping in Touch
One Thing
So, what is it? What is that one thing that you could read, think, write, or talk about for hours. What type of "work" feels fun and enjoyable to you? When you have 50 emails in your inbox to answer, which topics do you jump to answer first? What type of knowledge or help do … Continue reading One Thing
Sunday Soccer
Don and I started "Sunday Soccer" in 2009 when the boys' fall soccer season came to an end. He casually asked the team families if they'd like to meet at Zilker park on Sunday at 2 for a pick- up game of parents and kids. I remember the first Sunday, only one other family joined … Continue reading Sunday Soccer
Taking the First Steps
How many times have you asked any of these questions: What am I going to do after the kids are in school? How can I pull in some extra income for our family right now? I have invested many years of education and experience in my skill-sets or talents – is there a profitable way … Continue reading Taking the First Steps
Mom Owners
Mom Owners was inspired from moms like you. Moms like me. Moms that might have had degrees or careers but then dived deep into the world of diapers, board books, playdates, and family hikes. We never stopped learning or growing, but some of our focus had shifted because of time constraints. Instead of keeping up … Continue reading Mom Owners
Recharge
Do you remember taking the Myers Briggs Test? I think I was in college when I took it, and I found that I was an INFJ. Being a very friendly, over-involved student, I was a bit surprised at the "Introvert" label, until I read the explanation. While I love being around people and growing friendships, … Continue reading Recharge
Eyes
Do you look people in the eyes when you speak to them? Do they look back into your eyes? I learn so much about a person from just their eyes. Sometimes I feel like I can see right through if I get the privilege of a few moments of eye contact. Joy, sadness, freedom, bondage, … Continue reading Eyes
“Bright Girls”
I read an interesting article this week called, "Bright Girls" by Heidi Grant Halvorson. She is the author of a book called Succeed, and this was an excerpt from it. I immediately wanted to share this with girlfriends and get their take on it as well. Heidi says: But in my experience, smart and talented women … Continue reading “Bright Girls”
Initial Articles
When you are ready to launch your website, you will want to give visitors enough reason to stick around and see what you have to say. Most visitors will want a quick first impression from a Home Page that looks clean and up-to-date. They will go to the About Page to see who you are. … Continue reading Initial Articles
Favorite Games and Toys
I have a love for books and also a weird attraction to "developmental toys." I could have been one of those Discovery Toys salespeople or a Learning Express Toy Store Owner! I am most attracted to toys that I know the kids can use their imagination and play with over and over. For Younger Kids: … Continue reading Favorite Games and Toys
Hills
Don and I have been running together pretty consistently recently. We had a turning point weekend about a month ago when we thought we had run 6 miles, but really when we'd mapped it out, it was 7. For some crazy reason, after that run, we decided we could train for the Austin Half … Continue reading Hills
To Wonder
"For sometimes when we wonder, we can make things begin to happen." The boys and I started reading The Wheel on the School by Meindert DeJong today. What I loved most today was that in the first chapter of this book, the kids are let out of school a whole hour early if they promise … Continue reading To Wonder
Try to Win
I had just raced my daughter to the bathroom when we were at Borders tonight, and she "won." (I did actually have to run myself as she is a little speedster). I told her we could race back and asked her who she thought would win. "Me," she answered. "Well, I don't know, but probably … Continue reading Try to Win
To Narrate
The other day, my first son finished the second half of Caddie Woodlawn during one of our trips around Austin with Grandma and Grandpa Dalrymple. We arrived home late at night, but he was eager to tell me all about the book. Of course! - it's past 10:00 PM, and my son WANTS to "narrate." … Continue reading To Narrate
Balance
I have come to the conclusion that some people were designed with more of a need for balance and order in their lives, and others can function smoothly in chaos and unpredictability. Some people are more "off the cuff" or "go with the flow" while others need plans and schedules. For those who know me, … Continue reading Balance
Hard Times
It is no secret that our country is facing difficult times economically. We are at the beginning of an unpredictable recession. We all know families who are out of work or struggling to make ends meet. This book was such a beautiful narrative of a girl, family, and community who pull together during similar hard … Continue reading Hard Times
Sonya Dalrymple 